Thursday, March 19, 2009

When beauty turns into arrogance!

So how many of you catch up with the MTV splitsvilla show on Saturdays.... For those who have no idea about this show.. it is dating game... where 9 girls and 9 boys(all strangers to each other) have to find love.. and only one couple can survive and win at the end.. Actually all you will find in the show is lot of cat fights and girls getting at each others throats and bithching endlessly..

For people who know about this show already please jump onto the next paragraph... n for those who dont know.. read on..

One girl and a boy are chosen as the king and the queen. They have the ultimate power to eliminate a boy and a girl from the show every week.. Every week three girls and boys are put in the dumping zone and those in the dumping zone have to go on a date with the king and queen and impress them, to save themselves from the elimination. So the girls try to impress the king royally and guys try and impress the queen.
So last week in the show three gals had to impress the king and were sent on a date.. the date location was next to a swimming pool... each girl had 20 minutes to impress the guy.....So the first girl goes for the date.. The girl is nicely dressed in a one piece party wear with all accessories.. The guy is wearing a pair of shorts and is acting all snooty.. tells her to get into the pool... the girl says a no since she is in that dress.. the guys says he doesn know all that and she has to get into the pool if she wants to talk to him.. she finally says a ok. n tells him she will change to a swimming costume... he tells her, he will give her 30 seconds to get into the pool or else she can leave.. finally left with no choice she gets in.. and she slips in the pool too and this guy with no absolute decency treats the girl like a crap and makes the other two to get into the pool in their party wear...


Ok now lets get to my actual point.. well the present king is quite handsome guy.. He's kinda cute and he knows that as well. So the cuteness plus the king power has made him a real devil in the show. He treats girls in the date like his slaves...

when do you think the good looks actually turn someone into a heartless sick person... they start thinking other girls are living only for their bidding..they forget to treat them as girls.. and remove the word chivalry from the dictionary and turn themselves into cold, mean, self centered person.. Its just not the boys here.. there are many girls out there too.. who think beauty comes with the power to treat the rest of the people like a dirt..

You are beautiful / gorgeous / handsome / cute ... flaunt it... cherish it... love it... glorify it... But why the hell let arrogance of the beauty take over your senses ....

this is only my point of view... it can differ from person to person and all such opinions are welcomed here without any vengeance ;) ...

So tell me what do you think guys???

28 comments:

moi said...

that guy should be beaten up properly!!! just to let him know that he is not the king after all!!

I think with beauty comes prideness,so they tend to be insensitive towards other beings

mayz said...

well m pretty handsome n chivalrous too...hehehehehe!!!

Suresh Kumar said...

The whole concept of the proram is crap. Lucky me. I dont watch the idiot box

Tinkerbell said...

Yea I sometimes wonder why too , I mean God gave you something extra ,so use it to your advanatage just don't use it to treat people like shit or use it to look down on others.

NE~ISM said...

*rolls eyes* I need to knock some sense into him!! GOSH!

Lancelot said...

@ Charmed One

I completely agree (though I haven't seen this show) its common in everyday life and this rule goes to girls as well - but I am not going to talk about them - I am taking the guys side- I don't understand why many guys think its hip and cool to overpower a girl and think to keep them in their place - I for one differ in that - I always treat my girl friends equally. according to me if there is some sort of male chauvinism in me its my chivalry - like pulling the chair for her, holding the gate and stuffs like that - its also an indirect way of showing a guys supremacy over girl - but its in a gentle way...

I also understood that its not only in India - where the BF or Hubby throws the power over his pair - show off before his friends - that the girl cant cook well, she is not this she is not that kind of complaints..what they are going to prove by these?? that their pair is a completely cuckoo?

and have u ever noticed- irrespective of their looks (even a sad looking guy) guys behave arrogant when it comes to their girl/woman...taking it for granted- I try always to advise my friends not to treat theirs badly - but they ridicule me as the guy who lies flat on the girls feet...

cant help...

moi said...

@lancelot : I am impressed with your chivalry here and that little speech has me smiling :)

Lancelot said...

@ tu

*blushing*

Arv said...

well... I dont watch that show and I dont plan to either...

but that guy is wat we call a classic jerk :P

take care and have a nice weekend...

comfortably numb said...

talk of power going to the head though the minisculity of the "King's" brain is also something to be considered here:D

ApocalypsE said...

okay tats a show and they do crazy stuff for trp ratings...

That guy sounds pretty much like a nut case... somebody's got a crack him...:)

aZoed said...

all I know is... I just hate that show.. they suddenly seem to loose all their human values just to win a TV show?!!! I'm sure Darwin would be amazed to see his theory of 'survival of th fittest' being applied to reality TV like slitsvilla n roadies...

Chantel said...

It sounds like an awful show - though it is right on par with the rest of trashy reality TV shows that are out there. Actually, what bothers me is the use of the word "reality" when referring to shows like this, because there is nothing real about them. Yet, young, impressionable minds will watch them and think that this is how you behave if you want to be admired, loved or idolized. And thus the cycle continues: life imitating TV, imitating TV imitating life...

Akansha Agrawal said...

'Tis true, with beauty comes a power... which in most cases is the power of the first impression, but in my opinion, it's far from the last one... the only show that has hooked me so far is Roadies, and that too only for the physical tasks... rest is mainly trash! Otherwise, me to MTV: thou art useless... :D

And yes, I'll make sure my "man" isn't one of "these"... ;)

Chronicwriter said...

i'd rather marry a female dog (usage of the term bitch is prohibited) than marrying a girl with ahyped attitude...

arrogance.. hate that!

nice food for topic charing

Chronicwriter said...

i have two hands.. so can i say that i am HAND some?

www.chronicwriter.com

pisku said...

Maybe just wait for the tables to turn!

Keshi said...

Thats why I avoid watching Reality shows...cos there's nothing REAL about them.

Also, true BEAUTY never turns into ARROGANCE.


Im bak :)

Keshi.

perturbed perceiver said...

I soo agree with u!totally hate that show..i think its really demeaning. i did see a short clipping of that swimming pool thing-disgusting it was! the guy needs some gud drubbing!

Lena said...

i dont think looks and a person's nature are somehow related or affect each other. it is more the question of education and people's influence.

But on the other hand the media made this beauty mania and too often people who have got it (i mean good looks) think everyone else owes them.. like that guy you described

D said...

I think ugly people can be arrogant as well.

Just a thought!

pisku said...

where have u gone missing?

Lancelot said...

Why no post for long time...when marriage? or married???

americanising desi said...

i m wondering where art thou??

Pri said...
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Pri said...

what do i think?? hmm i think that splitsvilla is one of the cheapest show on air and im sure the participants know what they are getting into when they are auditioning for it...

everybody is bitching about everybody and if the girl/guy was decent enough, she could just give the 'king' or 'queen' one tight slap and get out any time they wanted...its no use bitching and weeping and having a pity party around u later---does'nt make sense to me atleast!

the tag line 'where love is war' is also utterly foolish..because where in hell is the 'love'..bah!!

hope said...

where are you girl..? must be enjoying... time :)

Suresh Kumar said...

Its been quite a long time that you have been absent from the blog world.
Where are you?